Sunday, April 13, 2008

Pretty girls, unattractive men gel well

This one I am writing when i have been haunted by an attitude ghost which stays inside me, this blog might be discriminatory or harmful for those who either have no or bad attitude or sensitive people....so kindly read with big heart n no brain n emotions....

The tile of the blog is the headline of todays most of newspapers..its a outcome of some deep research carried out by some researchers and published in Journal of Family Psychology, After seeing this i said to myself isn't it should be common sense ...and such obvious things gets published in the Jounals!!!!! a pity as I say Research is nothing but common sense endorsed by statistics.

A very insightful explaination to it was given by Dan Ariely, a professor of behavioural economics at MIT's Programme in Media Arts and Sciences and Sloan School of Management, said, "Men are very sensitive to women's attractiveness. Women seem to be sensitive to men's height and salary."

Yes they do !! Men prefer beauty and women height and salary , because one looks for a fairer and competitive gene and other for strong and stable partner. These choices had been there since 10000 BC...... or should I say Adam and Eve...no they didn't had choice. Women had always been looking for a better hunter
(in todays language salary) and tall and strong man and similarly men's choice as caveman till today has not changed its Beauty!!!!

Well the topic now is whether pretty woman and unattractive men stay better in relationship then both attractive and vice versa. I will definitely say yes , Y????????????

Is this what you are asking ..ok no need to read anything , lets take it like that you possess which everybody desires , what amount of care will you take to preserve the thing from others and if the entity is not an object a human and that tooo a pretty women wont you be on your toes to woe her!!! You will obviously be most insecure in heart for the world and open hearted for her. You will be most secluded from world and caring for her (Remember he is unattractive man) and now he has turned into insecured one too.
And what does a woman desire other than care, respect , attention, and single minded devotion ..thats it. ..
Now the question arises why unattractive men only??? well the attractive one will equally create the same insecure woman but the attractive one hardly looks for those things. He might be looking for great night stands and care with least amount of attention he has to give. He will be looking for something called space then lots of attention.
What if both are attractive yes I will like to say it will only create jealousy for people around and a great combination in initial years of relationships but later stages there might be a trouble as beauty might have developed a attitude among both and the one who loses the beauty first will be the one who loses the game first. An unattractive combination might led to male being dominating as he will obviously think that he is not got his share.

Although there might be different shades for different couples these laws are not generic these float on the surface at the bottom its what in the heart and as they say and I repeat....

Beauty lies in eyes of beholder..... but not when the eyes are of man ;)

Money never made a man happy yet, nor will it. The more a man has, the more he wants. Instead of filling a vacuum, it makes one. ..... but what about woman??? :D




1 comment:

wandering soul said...

pretty -- unattractive
not preety -- attractive
preety -- attractive
not pretty --unattractive

i think i got all the combinations
I guess its all abt perception ..

donno how n who gels well ??
But what i know is ...
Everything gels well ...
when one falls into the well called LOVE !!!